I have to admit. I have not been as happy this week as I could be. I realize that there are some areas that I am neglecting. Here is what I have discovered leads to my optimal happiness.
1) Rest. Everyone is a little different. I need seven and a half to eight hours of sleep a night to feel well rested. It seems like a lot to some, but it is what my body is programmed for. I am not one of those people who wake up at a certain time every day without an alarm clock. I prefer to think of my sleep needs like a timer. When it is done it is done. The past few weeks have been stretching it to the brink.
2) Exercise. Ideally I have the time and energy for three or more runs a week. They don't have to be long runs, just some running. This past week I have not had the time to squeeze in the correct number of runs. I am feeling the effects.
3) Reading. I usually read for at least one hour a day on my lunch break. Since I have only been taking a half hour lunch, this has been thrown off. Not only does reading help me escape a little bit, I like the feeling of accomplishment of finishing a book. I have stacks of them that need to be read, but lately, finding the time has been difficult.
4) Hydration. I notice that I feel better when I drink 48 ounces of water a day. I have no idea if this is a legitimate thing, or if lack of water can lead one to be unhappy (well, more than the general displeasure of dehydration). I just know that I feel better when I drink all of my water.
5) Clean. My home is far from perfect, but I feel less stress when things are in proper order, and generally clean. It helps with item location, and an overall feeling of security for me. I don't have to worry if someone pops by, most of my home is in order. While I by no means need to be signed up for hoarders, or some other horrific show, my house could be a little less chaotic. Right now I have a stove in the middle of my kitchen (long story) and an office that looks like a PartyLite bomb went off in it. While both of these things are part of operation happiness (the stove is awesome, I just need to do a little counter surgery, and the PartyLite stuff is so cute!) they feel like clutter.
Here is the bright spot in the clouds. All of these items can be worked on. I can come home after work and take a thirty minute nap. I can make more of an effort to read and drink water instead of watch tv. I can clean things up a little bit at a time and I can certainly make more time to exercise. I just need to make them more of a priority.
What are the things that you need for optimal happiness?
The good news is that you have given some thought to what you need for optimal happiness. The bad news is that it highlights to me that I currently have no clue what I need for optimal happiness. Guess it is time to figure it out! Cindy H
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